Friday, October 31, 2008
Starting to Become Mobile
Oh, the past 3 months have been fun, but I have a feeling once this little guy gets rolling, the fun will just increase ten-fold!
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Father and Son working together to save babies
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
The Roaming Baby
Well-Done, Good and Faithful Swaddle Blanket
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Cute Tummy Time Pictures
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Even Hard-Working Daddies Need a Sabbath Rest
Saturday, October 25, 2008
Friday, October 24, 2008
Happy Birthday Daddy!!!
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Bath Time Adventures
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
It is Working
For the past two days, Michael has been much more cheerful and well-rested.
Tuesday, Michael took a 2 hour nap in the car seat...two hours!! The rest of the day, he was playful smiley and back to his normal self.
In the afternoon, he took a brief nap as I was driving around, but didn't continue it once we got home. He didn't take an evening nap, so once it was 6:30, we bundled him up for bed. We said our prayers, laid him in his crib awake, and sadly, listened to him cry. But this time, the crying was for just a few minutes and he was asleep for hours and hours (until I went into his room to turn off his fan. That woke him up, so I fed him and put him back down for the night!
Michael woke up cheerful this morning, bright and early at 6 am. After feeding him, I put him back down, but I don't think he actually slept...he just dozed (as did Mommy!) and we both got up to play at 7am.
After about 45 minutes, Michael was looking pretty tired again (it's normal for babies to need a nap about an hour after they wake up), so I put him to bed...he fussed a little, but then was asleep within 5 minutes!! On his own!!
He slept for about 30 minutes, then was up, so after waiting to see if he would get himself back to sleep (he didn't...but at least he wasn't crying!) we got up to eat and play.
After some play time, changing time, and eating time, Michael was looking drowsy again. I wasn't sure what to do, because it really hadn't been that long since his last nap...then again, his last nap was only 30 minutes....I was torn. I didn't want him to spend all day in bed. However, my instincts told me that he looked tired, he was slowing down in his play and getting a quiet, serious-type disposition. I figured I would put him down and see what direction it took.
He relaxed in his crib for about 15 minutes...not crying, not fussing, just looking around. At that point, I noticed he kept looking to the side and staying still for a few minutes. He was falling asleep, but then at about 1-minute intervals, he would startle and wake up, only to turn his head to the side and fall asleep again. This went on about 6 times...until now, when he stayed asleep, no crying whatsoever.
I know he may have a few episodes where he cries, or where I am not quick enough in responding to his sleep cues and he'll become overtired and fussy, but I am so proud of him for learning this skill so quickly!!
Thanks for everyone's support and prayers!
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Learning to Sleep
It's his little sleep issue he's got...he just can't seem to stay asleep for longer than 20 minutes almost all the time, with just a few exceptions here and there. It's a snowball effect.
In the morning, after his long night sleep, he's cheerful and playful. Then, the morning nap time hits, and he only gets about 20-30 minutes. He wakes up groggy, but not tired enough to easily fall back to sleep.
We try for a little while, but in the end, without a long a stressful fight for both of us, naptime passes and we wait for the next opportunity, resuming playtime and active time until around 11:30 or noon.
By that time, it's time to eat...but he's too tired to eat...so he gets swaddled for a nap, which he may or may not take. If he does take it, it's only for 20 minutes. When he wakes up, he's rested enough to eat (and by now he's very hungry) but not rested enough to be rejuvenated. He'll usually fall asleep while eating, get transferred to his bed, and either awaken instantly, or sleep only for a few minutes more.
After attempting to get him to sleep again and failing, we've now wait until the afternoon for his afternoon nap, usually about 2:30 or 3. By this time, Michael is exhausted. His eyelids are kind of a pinkish color, and he's got major bags around his eyes. Every time I pick him up, he tries to fall asleep on my shoulder, and now anytime I try to feed him, he is fussy.
But...you guessed it! Repeat cycle. His nap, if he takes one is short.
Normally, this time when he wakes up, he is in slightly better spirits and good for some afternoon play. We go for a walk, get some fresh air and see what the world has to offer. By this time, I'll run some errands, or go to work if I have to for a little bit until it's time for his next nap around 5ish. Sometimes I can get him to sleep while I cook dinner...most of the time not.
Next, he gets up, plays with Daddy for a little bit, eats his dinner and then goes off to bed, tired and exhausted at around 7pm, sometmes a little before.
Agh! This is tough! Usually in the afternoons, I will try to ensure he gets a good nap by holding him, but I'm noticing that he never really seems that much regenerated when he gets held for his nap. It's almost like he is in this transitional period where he's no longer so accustomed to sleeping in our arms, but he is still not capable of sleeping in his bed for long periods during the day. It's really really hard to watch.
I've looked online to see what some people (who may or may not be experts) have to say about short sleep cycles, and consistently, people say that it is all about whether or not the child knows how to get himself to sleep.
Over the past few weeks, I've been attempting a "no-cry" shot at this...and it has worked pretty well, with the help of a pacifier, but I have used it primarily when I get him to sleep in my arms, and he wakes up after I transfer him to the crib. Now, I'm taking it a step further and putting him in the crib drowsy yet awake, and trying to soothe him in his bed. That way we don't deal with the hassle of the transfer, and he wakes up in the same place he fell asleep (one reason, the "experts" say is what wakes him after the 20 minute sleep cycle, preventing him from moving smoothly into another sleep cycle).
The past few days, I am taking it just a step further and having the baby just cry it out for limited periods of time. And do you know what? It is working. It's not easy, but it's working.
A few nights ago, in the middle of the night when Michael was unusually alert and playful after a late night feeding, I didn't have the energy or the patience to rock and rock and rock him to sleep. So I just put him in his crib, counting on the fact that it was 3 am, and totally dark in his room to put him to sleep on his own. It did.
Last night, I let Michael cry for 15 minutes, went in and put the pacifier in his mouth, rubbed his tummy and his forehead, said our prayers and left the room. After 3 cycles of this, he finally got himself to sleep.
Today, for a nap, he cried it out for 15 minutes and then fell asleep. He woke up after 25 minutes, and was unsuccessful at getting back to sleep despite my assistance, and despite crying for a little while. I guess you can't win 'em all. He still woke up exhausted, but we gave him a bath and waited for the next sleep period which was bed time.
I did our bedtime routine, except I laid him in his bed awake...unswaddled one arm so he could suck on it. After a little while of on-and-off crying/whimpering, he finally fell asleep and stayed asleep. Actually, he even woke up on several occasions to move around, but got himself back to sleep.
So, is it working? I will only know for sure once he takes longer naps and is able to restfully go to bed, even though I put him down awake...but, by golly, we are working on it.
I know he may be mad, but I think it's best for him to be well-rested, and to have more alert playtime in the day so he can learn new things and be more active.
I'm pleased with our little successes today (and it really wasn't all that much time of him fussing), but am very anxious to get through this period in his learning where he learns to put himself to sleep.
Once again, much solace and company is found online! And thanks to family and friends who listen to me as I drone on and on (since his birth!) about his little sleep issues! May we soon be past them.
I love the Internet
First, I love that I can shop online. I love that I don't have to drive around town to get everything I may want or need. Driving around town with a baby is not nearly as fun as driving around alone.
Secondly, it has a plethora of advice. Granted, some of it has to be taken with a grain of salt, if that, but I love not necessarily calling a doctor or whatever for every piece of advice I think I need.
Third, I love that I don't feel like I'm the only mom who experiences this or that. Like, I can type in "baby has 20 minute sleep cycle" and I can read about why Michael wakes up every 20 minutes on the dot from a nap, and how I can help him fall back asleep and extend that time so he is getting more than just catnaps throughout the day, leading to a drowsy baby most of the time.
I love that I can type in "my baby doesn't like car rides" and find a whole host of other moms whose kids are going through the same thing I am when we get in the car and hear some suggestions on what they did to help soothe their baby in a car ride.
I just can't believe what a source of comfort it is to type in pretty much whatever I feel like, and I can find so much information on the subject, and then weed through what seem like credible sources and try different things.
I don't know what people did without the Internet! My hat goes off to you because I know without it, I would feel so much more lost than I already do!
Saturday, October 18, 2008
*Mute*
Thursday, October 16, 2008
"Mike" TV*

Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Sleeping in his own room
For the past several nights, he has been particularly...um...shall we say, chatty? whiny? demanding? throughout the night, leaving Mom and Dad pretty darn tired. He's not always hungry, but sometimes just needs a little hug before he goes back to sleep. He also wiggles so much during the night that the pin in the cradle loosens and he ends up tilted towards one side or another.
Sometimes, he just whines, maybe even while still sleeping, but it is disturbing enough that one of us is bound to get up and try and figure out what he needs, only to find out that by the time he is in our arms, he is already asleep again. So, did he really need that involvement from us? Did we really have to get up? Could he have gotten to sleep on his own?
We've been exhausted, and are definitely at the point of seeing if a softer, bigger, comfy-er bed will do the trick. Not only that, but him being in his own room will give him the freedom to fuss a little in is bed a little and see if can get himself to sleep without having mom or dad interrupting him.
So, we'll see how he does. It may be short-lived, but so far, he seems pretty happy in there. But I miss him in our room already. It's a big step--our little boy in his own room!
Monday, October 13, 2008
A really good day
And days that go by like this:
And there are many days when I feel like if Baby Michael could talk, he would ask me: Lady, do you even know what the heck you are doing?!
Of course, the over-arching sentiment is that I am having a blast, despite my constant worry over whether or not he is getting enough sleep, or I am messing up his schedule by bringing him here and there, etc.
But there are certain days that are just more fun than others. Certain days where I feel like, for a fleeting moment, we got the hang of it. Certain days where I don't have suspicions that baby Michael is filling out a secret baby petition to be mailed off to the Mommy Distribution Center, asking for a reassignment.
Today was one of those days.
From his first waking up, Michael was all smiles today (minus a block of time where, for one reason or another, he was just totally and completely inconsolable. Not sure what was up with that. He had napped, he was clean, he was burped, he was fed. I suppose he has a certain quota of crying he must fill for one day. Usually he spreads it out...I guess yesterday he just got it out all at once and was perfectly charming the rest of the day).
But most of the day:
I look at him...he laughs.
I kiss him...he laughs.
I go in after a nap...and instead of crying, here's what I see:
It's been such a fun day!
Michael's mom came down to look after Baby Michael while I took care of a Bible study at Church. It was great to not worry about dragging Baby Michael everywhere late at night postponing bedtime.
And he was all smiles for her too! It was great! Definitely a win-win!
So, tomorrow is promising to be a good day as well (because Grammy and Poppy are coming!)....
But whatever the next day brings, today is a day that I thought to myself...I think I'm kind of getting the hang of this!
They must think I'm crazy
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Random Thoughts....Bad Product Name
I always have to do a double take because it looks like it says Double Chin.
Not exactly the type of word association you want with a product like ice cream....right? People have an inkling to buy it, they see the word "double chin" and maybe think twice about it, because the product is foretelling the future. And that future looks something like this:
Bon Appetit!
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Tummy Time is improving

Friday, October 10, 2008
Why a few minutes in Photoshop is a Dangerous Thing
I just couldn't resist it.
It only took a few minutes in Photoshop, yes, minutes I should have been sleeping. But nonetheless. I was up anways and the picture just insisted that this be done to it:
Crazy babies.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
The Mommy Substitute
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
I like this picture
This one stood out in a particular way to me.
Something about it really strikes me....it's "dynamic" or something. Maybe because everyone is looking at someone and seems happy about it. I don't know.
Anyways, it was a great visit and they were even so kind as to watch Michael while I ran to the office to get some work done! Thanks!
The rest of the pictures from that visit are on Flickr.
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Random Thoughts...The Hungry Hunter

As a steaklover, I like the idea of a steakhouse just as much as the next gal. But something always strikes me as odd in the name of the restaurant.
Do you see it too?
Here's a hint at what I find so amusing: What type of animal does steak come from?

...and how...may I ask does a person hunt a cow? I mean...hunting....there implies some thrill, some challenge...some prowess and perserverance. When I think of hunting, I think of camoflauge so one can sneak up on its prey....catching it off guard, and, even with a rifle, having to face some sort of difficult in getting a shot off, and you only get one chance because if you shoot and miss, that thing will go running and you'll never catch it.
But a cow? Hunting a cow?
Well, that just seems silly to me. But you know, after doing some research I've actually discovered it to be a dangerous sport...even life threatening!
So, I guess I stand corrected. It is possible to hunt a cow. So next time you enjoy a burger, a nice piece of steak or even some ribs, say a little "Thank you" to the brave hunters who got it to your plate!
What happens if we don't swaddle
Last night after the Bible Study, it was a little later than Michael's normal bedtime....not to mention he went on a veritable "Nap Strike" yesterday and didn't take any nap in the morning. He was exhausted!
So I took him out of his car seat and fed him a little and he fell into a very deep sleep. Not wanting to wake him and anxious to experiment and see if he still really needs to be swaddled, we just laid him down without swaddling.
We tiptoed out of the room, thinking it would only last about 5 minutes. It actually lasted about 15! And at that point, we saw the above picture.
Poor kid! He needs his swaddle!
Friday, October 3, 2008
Big Bed, Little Boy
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Michael likes to read
I've always heard it's important to start reading early. So after rummaging through some baby things, I found a book designed specifically for infants, and I thought I would give it a try.
I thought, "He's just a baby! How is going to know what is going on with a book. He just barely learned that he has hands for crying out loud!"
But, as I read the book to him, I stood amazed, surprised and corrected. Michael likes this book!
As soon as I began reading it to him, his attention was fixated on the pages. They are super colorful with characters with big faces that must be appealing to his little brain.
The more I read the pages, the more noises he made, over and over and over again, "talking" to the book. In fact, I've noticed that he has a favorite page: the police dog page. He always reacts the loudest to that page. It's amazing!
Next, we tried sitting up and reading the book to him, and our amazement was even greater still. Michael, for the first time reached out to touch something in front of him.
Michael has been doing well getting his hands to his mouth, and if you put a toy next to him within his grasp, he will eventually clutch on to it, but this is the first time, with this crazy little book, that Michael will fix his attention on something in front of him and put his hand to it. It's no accident...see for yourself!
So it's official. Michael is like his Daddy. He loves to read! And you know, after we were done reading, the first thing I did was get online and order more of these Lamaze books.

Goooood Books!